Q: I just wanted to say thank you for this site – it has been invaluable. I didn’t realise why my considerate, loving, sweet partner had suddenly turned into someone who became annoyed by everything I do (and have always done), but after reading articles on your site, it all makes sense.

Thank you so much for your site – it has really helped me. I stupidly believed that (as he said) I was the cause of the discord in our relationship, but now I realise it isn’t my fault and no matter how I change, I’ll never be what he wants, because he doesn’t know what he wants. 

Now I just need to let him get on with his search and get on with my life, because the man I loved is gone forever. Now I can stop feeling angry at him, for changing so dramatically and unexpectedly, and myself, for not being a good enough person, and move forward in my life.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

A: You’re welcome.