Q: Please tell me why I cannot access this forum and advise.

A: First, have you registered and been approved for membership in the forum? If so, did you click on the link for the midlife club forum?
http://midlifeclubforum.com

If you haven’t registered then you need to Register for Forum Membership. As soon as you register you will receive an email confirming receipt of your request. Since all membership requests are reviewed prior to approval, it may take several days before you receive the email with your Forum ID and Password. The email will also contain a link you must click through to validate your account before you can log in for the first time.