Q: I got the “speech” in febuary of this year after 28 years he doesnt love me and hes not attracted to me He says the clssic stuff I should have seen this coming I could go on and on. Our daughter and 3 sons are in a crisis / daughter was in rehab now her and our three grandsons are living with us for now.  My life is a mess and until febuary I thought I had the best marriage in the world I could go on and on but I wont. HELP!!!

A: Your story is repeated time after time on the Midlife Club forum. Register for the forum then read, read, read, and continue reading. This takes time, there are no quick fixes or fast answers.