Midlife Club

‘Survivor Wisdom’

You are doing sooo well so far! Hang in there, stay committed to the path you’ve chosen and it will get easier with time. I wish it could be an overnight thing, but our hearts just don’t work that way. More »

Caveat #1: these are my feelings only, and basically are worth exactly that much. I’m not a shrink, I’m not a counselor, I’m just a guy. More »

I think we all have our answers inside of us. Sometimes there just seem to be more than one voice going on and you have no idea who to believe!! More »

Not sure what’s gotten into me lately, maybe it’s just the summer heat & humidity but I think I’m just plain tired of this sh*t. More »

I have been reading and following many threads on this forum and/or talking to several of you on the phone these past few days who, I feel are basically in the same boat. More »

We men have three basic needs; we will have them until we die. If we are transgressed against in the meeting of these needs we will fight irrationally to meet them. If we feel at a deficit for them we will seek other avenues to get them. We will commit all our energies to achieve them. We are bestowed with greatest honor when we receive them. More »

During the past 13 months since ‘the first speech’ on 22nd October 2007 I have learnt many new things and experienced many situations I never imagined could happen to me, some good, more bad. More »

This isn’t about you or the marriage this is all about him and the internal panic and confusion that he is suffering from. He is searching for some indefinable something and until his search is over you will be banging your head against a brick wall. This is one of the reasons why marriage counseling doesn’t really help in these situations. More »

What does testosterone have to do with midlife Crisis?

Well it doesn’t take too much of a stretch of imagination to understand. We men have always known that “feeling good” and testosterone boosts go hand-in-hand. But now that science has caught up to our grade 9 science class they finally have something to say. More »

I don’t know about you but I get tired of hearing it! I have Satellite TV with SPIKE and all the latest stations but in the evening they have these crazy commercials on about “male enhancement” – you know… buy such and such a pill and big problems are no longer a problem! I mean… I just want to leave the room embarrassed for being a man. More »