Journaling through His Midlife CrisisJournaling through His Midlife Crisis: Redefining Your Life As He Reinvents His - a journaling tool for women.

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Teen Mom - A JournalSixteen-year-old "Katie" was half way through her junior year of high school when she became pregnant. During her pregnancy and for several months afterward, she kept a journal. This is her story as told in that journal. This is reality, not fiction.

‘Survivor Wisdom’

Taking Care of Myself

Whether you’re a left behind spouse or in midlife crisis, there is a common theme of “taking care of you” that gets talked about frequently and for good reason. Unfortunately when we are in the middle of crisis in our lives, the concept gets absolutely lost in the daily stress. More »

Some Good Out of the Pain

If I am completely honest, some good things have come out of the pain. I have a long way to go, but I wanted to share my success. I was too involved with my adult daughter. I had almost an unhealthy bond with her because I was worried about her mental health all the time. I tried to save her from hurt and financial problems, terrible bosses, etc. and by doing this, she took a lot of my energy. (Probably away from where I should have been focusing.) More »

Life Is A Tapestry

You are doing sooo well so far! Hang in there, stay committed to the path you’ve chosen and it will get easier with time. I wish it could be an overnight thing, but our hearts just don’t work that way. More »

Thoughts From a Midlife Man

Caveat #1: these are my feelings only, and basically are worth exactly that much. I’m not a shrink, I’m not a counselor, I’m just a guy. More »

Time To Feel

I think we all have our answers inside of us. Sometimes there just seem to be more than one voice going on and you have no idea who to believe!! More »

My Changing Perspective

Not sure what’s gotten into me lately, maybe it’s just the summer heat & humidity but I think I’m just plain tired of this sh*t. More »

When Midlife Man Is Yanking Your Chain

I have been reading and following many threads on this forum and/or talking to several of you on the phone these past few days who, I feel are basically in the same boat. More »

A Man's Three Basic Needs

We men have three basic needs; we will have them until we die. If we are transgressed against in the meeting of these needs we will fight irrationally to meet them. If we feel at a deficit for them we will seek other avenues to get them. We will commit all our energies to achieve them. We are bestowed with greatest honor when we receive them. More »

What I Have Learned…

During the past 13 months since ‘the first speech’ on 22nd October 2007 I have learnt many new things and experienced many situations I never imagined could happen to me, some good, more bad. More »

It Isn't About You

This isn’t about you or the marriage this is all about him and the internal panic and confusion that he is suffering from. He is searching for some indefinable something and until his search is over you will be banging your head against a brick wall. This is one of the reasons why marriage counseling doesn’t really help in these situations. More »