Midlife Club

‘Q&A’

Q: Need some support and help to deal with my wife’s midlife crisis. I know time and patience is key but what else is there to do? I do not want a divorce, I want to stay married to her, however i do not think the same is true from her. What to do?

A: It really doesn’t matter what you want if her mind is made up. What to do? Join the Midlife Club forum and read, read, read, and read some more and see how others have dealt with the exact same situation. This is new for you but it’s an old story to members of the forum.

Q: Can you tell me where I can go to “group’ meetings about “Mid-Life” crisis?  Somewhere in Los Angeles?  West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, or nearby???  HELP!!!!!

A: There are ongoing “virtual group meetings” on the Midlife Club forum including real time chat. We do not have organized meetings or group sessions. If you’re dealing with marital issues, you might also look for a local DivorceCare group.

Q: I got the “speech” in febuary of this year after 28 years he doesnt love me and hes not attracted to me He says the clssic stuff I should have seen this coming I could go on and on. Our daughter and 3 sons are in a crisis / daughter was in rehab now her and our three grandsons are living with us for now.  My life is a mess and until febuary I thought I had the best marriage in the world I could go on and on but I wont. HELP!!!

A: Your story is repeated time after time on the Midlife Club forum. Register for the forum then read, read, read, and continue reading. This takes time, there are no quick fixes or fast answers.

Q: Hello;  i’am very upset. my husband came home and told me ha is not happy; did not see this coming . I am totally shocked. I asked him what he is not happy about he says he doesn;t know. please give me advise.

A: Same advice as given to everyone else: register and join The Midlife Club Forum, then read, read, read, and read some more. Almost everyone there has a similar story. There are no quick answers.

Q: My 40, soon to be 41, husband just walked out after 10 years of marriage. I never thought he was the type to do this. None of his reasons made since and I was distraught. Then I fell upon your site and read HIS Midlife crisis and most, if not all my questions were answered. He even stated in a letter that this was not a midlife crisis. I have never logged onto a forum before so could you please give me some instruction and pointers. More »

Q: registered but can’t access forum please send instructions

A: When you registered you would have immediately received an email with a link to click through to validate your email address. If you signed up with a bogus email address, you wouldn’t receive this validation email. Or, if your email is being filtered for spam, our validation/welcome email may have been blocked. If you used your regular email address, return to the log in page and have the email sent again.

Q: do u have any information from couples who’s marriage have survived the husband’s mid life crisis? also how long does mlc typically take?

A: There is no “typical” time when talking about midlife crisis. It will be done when it is done. It isn’t an illness that can be “cured,” it is a life transition that resolves over time. More »

Q: Please tell me why I cannot access this forum and advise.

A: Did you click on the link for the midlife club forum?
http://midlifeclubforum.com

If you did not, then click the link above, register, reply to the email confirmation, and then you should be able to access the forum. If you still cannot get into the forum, we can’t help you.

Q: On your website, you reference Mid Life wives Club website. When I try to log on it goes to you. Is it supposed to? I’m confused. I wanted to interact with others in my position.

A: It is the same. Please click on the forum page and then click into the forum, register and read. You will be where you want to be.